The Good Guy

I decided to get back to blogging. It's been a while with School and stuff. I promise to blog at least once a week to my few readers. Stay Tunneeddd.

Today's topic will be my take on the whole good guy/bad guy issue that has been going ever since dating has become westernised. There are many victims when it comes to courtship. From the guy's perspective, the current "myth" is that women like the bad boys, yet when they get their heart's broken, they start to say things like "how come all the people treat me this way". Being guys, there is practically no sympathy because we feel they deserve it. I think many people can relate to this. Then there's the females perspective, after being a victim of abuse (emotionally), the world is suddenly filled with only bad guys. 

Does it really exist? Yes, it does. However, it is in substance different to how people see it. Fundamentally, the definition for both genders are different.

So what are guys definition of the Good guy? Someone that treats women as there first priority. (simplified). This is probably the same thing that girls will tell most people. However, as the saying goes, ask a women what she wants and she will tell you what she needs but not what she wants. 

Women are attracted to males that they think are high-in demand. In other words, subconsciously they are more emotionally attached to someone that doesn't always treat them as there first priority. Who are the people that are able to do this? Yes, they are the so called Bad guys. These guys know how to play with the right balance of the female emotions to make females go crazy over them. Aggressive yet subtle. Sweet but not to sweet. That's why the beginning is always so fun, then it starts to slowly get bitter in the middle, before coming to a point where it is hard to let go. It is rare to see a person transit from Good to Bad, usually they're just all "bad" covered with "good" skin.  

This "skill-set" is usually obtained with a wealth of experience, yet it is there final intent that causes the greatest devastation. Not many people actually use these tools to find the "life-long partner" but rather it all becomes just a simple game to them. Guys tell guys everything and that includes bragging when they cheat. However, it is the complete opposite for females. 

In life, you meet so many people yet only attracted to a few. There are good guys everywhere but that's really not what they want and somehow this contradiction causes much frustration to the people who consider themselves real "Good guys". They somehow feel so unjust, but to me, they are just a bunch of "sore losers". People that choose to live in self pity for not having the spirit to fight for who they want to be with. People that come up with 50 different scenarios when it is just a simple yes or no.

I wanted to write more, but i'll add on in another post cause it's nearly 4am and I'm really tired. Good night peeps! Till next time.